At some point in everyone's lives, they realize they might as well just say what's on their mind because... oh, I don't know... they've finally figured out that political correctness is highly over-rated, or they've realized that they're getting older and running out of time.
(On the other hand, we all know people who come out of the womb shooting their mouths off and seem to have been born without any governor at all... but that's grist for another blog.)
In my humble observations, people generally wait too long to express themselves. Here's a test for you. Do you have more regret about things you said, or things you
wish you would have said? Sure... I'll bet you have a few big blunders that you'd like to undo somewhere in your past, but I'm also betting you have one of those comments that you
didn't say and it probably happened as recently as yesterday.
Unless you're old. Then you probably just said it.
A few years ago, we had an elderly gentleman named Les who worked around the building doing odd jobs and maintenance. One year, at the Christmas party, as one of the staff was called up to the front of the room, Les remarked to the people at his table, "Well, she's put on some weight!"
"Les," chided a female co-worker. "I hope you don't talk about
me like that."
"No, no..." he replied, brushing off the idea. "You've
always been a big girl."
Just to be clear, I'm not saying that you should go out of your way to make people miserable; I just think that there's room in the world for a little more honesty. As for those people who couldn't quite see their way to being honest, well, I suspect they'd be much more cautious about what they said and the questions they asked, if they knew the rest of the world was likely going to give them an honest response.
Don't wait until you're too old to enjoy it. Take a chance on the truth. It's incredibly liberating.